What Do You Fear?
Some of you might have
gone through my recent post titled ‘What’s Meaningful For You?’. This was a
short fiction in my attempt to extrapolate the significance of the few lines
that struck me from the book Man’s Search for Meaning. Now I realize, there was more to it. It was not just about the
meaning of a symbolic dream, but also about a strong enemy that often does some
good to us all--fear.
Fear seems to be the
most primitive of human emotions, which often works as an alarm bell and
releases various signals through hormones in human body thus influencing mind
to take the best suited decision at the time of need. Fear, however has a very
deep cultural meaning as well. This emotion signifies the inability to be in
control of a certain occasion or the failure in keeping one’s nerves calm when
met with adversity. As a result the coward flees from the war zone. Many a
passages from holy texts of religions as well as ideologies proclaim it best to
be full of courage.
“Sanity-destined people
are fearless. They don’t occupy themselves with ego thoughts. They cling to
knowledge and its discipline.”- Bhagavad Gita, Gita 16.1.
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This quote suggests the
significance of achieving courage in the face of ‘the unknown’, the most
important and terrifying ‘enemy’ of human psyche. Fear for ‘the unknown’ is a
severe form of fear that does not concern itself with the specific impacts of a
harmful opponent, but the unknown repercussions of facing an unseen void.
“Be strong and of good
courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the LORD your God, He is the
One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.” --Deuteronomy
31:6.
This verse from The
Holy Bible assures the presence of The Highest Being at the time of facing an
adversary. The focus, of course, is on the physical and ‘the known’ adversary.
whether the threat is known or unknown, internal or external, within or
without, fear always pops up in our minds and makes us feel as if fear is the
enemy, as I mentioned in the first paragraph.
Fear is real, courage
is only response. The tightening of muscles and the fastening of heartbeats
make us realize either we should flee or should take measures for protection.
The short story about dreaming spiders and those disgusting creatures crawling
over the man’s face was not real. It was just a dream, both within the context
of the story and the event that inspired the story. Or so I believed, until
today, (5-11-2013) when I found a news item in The Independent.
Image Courtesy: Dr. Wayne W. Dyer |
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer suggests
in his captivating book You'll See It
When You Believe It: The Way to Your Personal Transformation that each
individual is part of the great ‘human being’ that spreads throughout the
earth, across time and space, and that individuals are not islands, as we normally
conceive. In other words, every human being living on this plant, according to
Dyer, is a part of the body of the total humanity. The news piece I encountered
sounds an eerie proof to this pan human state of being.
According to The Independent, dated Monday, 04 Nov
2013, Consi Taylor noticed that “dozens of tiny baby spiders were emerging from
within the fur and crawling all over her banana.” The newspaper quoted her
saying, “they were hatching out on the table, scurrying around on my carpet.” She
informed the pest control company, although at the time she was frightened out
of her senses. The authorities said that the crawlies were “Brazilian wandering
spiders – an arachnid commonly known the “banana spider” and listed as the
world’s most venomous by Guinness World Records in 2010.”
The poison of Brazilian
wandering spiders is capable of inducing “total loss of muscle control, severe
breathing problems, and partial paralysis” and all this resulting in
asphyxiation--the condition of extreme decrease in oxygen level in the body.
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The fear for spiders is
totally justifiable, although some of the spiders are rather harmless to
humans. Being an arachnophobic, you cannot expect me to be unbiased, by the
way. Although the events in the news and my blog post on dreaming spiders were
set apart by differences in dates and continents, Ms Taylor from the UK and I
from INDIA, the striking similarity in spiders running around all over the
place makes these two instances connected. Was I dreaming of what would happen
to Consi? Or was Consi living an altered reality portrayed in my short story?
The spider babies came out of the banana she was eating at the time. Her fright
led her to take the right decision to call for help.
“Be on your guard;
stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.”-- 1 Corinthians 16:13.
As I mentioned, courage
is only a response. However, a total absence of fear might cause a total
absence of courage as well. In other words, courage is born out of fear. This
verse from The Holy Bible suggests the same, when it says “be on your guard”
and “stand firm in the faith”. Faith, in the final attainment of courage, is the
only channel, the door of hope, in interpreting the message from those hyperactive
muscles and fast paced heartbeats, correctly.
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